To my
mind, the idea that doing dishes is unpleasant can occur only when you aren't
doing them. Once you are standing in front of the sink with your sleeves
rolled up and your hands in the warm water, it is really quite pleasant. I
enjoy taking my time with each dish, being fully aware of the dish, the
water, and each movement of my hands. I know that if I hurry in order to eat
dessert sooner, the time of washing dishes will be unpleasant and not worth
living. That would be a pity, for each minute, each second of life is a
miracle! If I am incapable of washing dishes joyfully, if I want to finish
them quickly so I can go and have dessert, I will be equally incapable of
enjoying my dessert. With the fork in my hand, I will be thinking about what
to do next, and the texture and the flavor of the dessert, together with the
pleasure of eating it, will be lost. I will always be dragged into the
future, never able to live in the present moment. Each thought, each action
in the sunlight of awareness becomes sacred. In this light, no boundary
exists between the sacred and the profane. I must confess it takes me a bit
longer to do the dishes, but I live fully in every moment, and I am happy.
Washing the dishes is at the same time a means and an end - that is, not only
do we do the dishes in order to have clean dishes, we also do the dishes just
to do the dishes, to live fully in each moment while washing them.